Pain | Growth

We don’t choose the pain, but we choose the growth that comes from it.

Growth comes from Pain.

We don’t have a choice.

We are dealt as we are dealt.

The type of pain,

when it arrives,

and the form it comes in.

It is not ours to choose.

BUT

What you do get to choose,

is the growth that comes from it.

That is YOUR choice.

You can…

accept and move forward,

or to fight and stay stuck.

Noone chooses pain or wants the painful shit that comes with it…

because it’s shitty.

And most often you get served what you have not asked for.

And it is not want you want.

But what you get,

is likely…

what you need.

And what is needed.

It is served to you…

to get you to your next step…

or to get you back on your path.

But know,

every step on your path is yours to walk.

And is necessary.

Your path is your path and only your path.

It is unique to you.

Only you know your path.

And only you can walk your path.

Focus on you.

Your path.

Your next step.

And remember,

be gentle with yourself.

Not all your steps will be easy or fast.

And soley focus on  your path…

because others paths are a distration from what you are meant to do!

Be strong. Be kind. Be gentle. Be grateful. Be forgiving. Be loving. Be courageous.

Trust. And follow your Truth.

xoxo

Similar Posts

  • The Path

    My path will be filled with successes and failures. I accept them all as they pave my way. My successes fuel and accelerate my journey. I am grateful and ready for more. My failures teach me much about who I am. I am thankful for them as they teach me vital lessons. I vow to…

  • Bubbling

    Festering, bubbling, brewing… begging to be released. No! Burry it deep. Don’t think it. Talk about it. Acknoledge it. It isn’t real. It isn’t happening. No. Not me. Not my life. What will they say. It will be so hard. They are so crewl. They won’t understand. But… it’s festering. Yearning to be free. Screaming…

  • Truth

    Each and every one of us is on a specific path. We have a mission to accomplish while we’re here and we are all here for a reason. What I have realized on my path is that the journey IS life – the memories, the good-old days – we are living them now. I have come to…

  • Lighthouse Ladybug

    The nubble lighthouse guides the way. His ashes scattered on a raw, cold stormy day. As we toss the powdery gravel into the wet winds the dark death covers us like the a blanket of burden of the trial we were living. Heavy, dark, stormy and little visibility. Many years have now passed and as…

  • Energetic Awakening

    Totaly surrendering. For what is to be. For I am to become. This new me. I release all that that no longer serves me. Knowing that those that know better are driving for me. I have done my part and for this part of the release. My only job is to let go. And let those…

  • Trust

    I was terrified of the future, of what my life was going to look like. Would I be able to do it alone? I wanted to know what the next step was, that what I was doing was going to work. I wanted assurance that I was going to be okay, but that’s not something…